#004: It's Not Me, It's You - with Clarissa Castillo-Ramsey
An Artist and Organisational Psychologist, Clarissa goes into why we enter conflict and why blabbering to your boss is a manipulative move we need to get out of.
- Why we never left the playground when in conflicts + how to unlearn those behaviours
- Why we enter conflicts + how to solve them
- Being boss vs employee and how to juggle both, hello my fellow entrepreneurs!
- Interpretation is everything, perception is your reality - Be curious not furious
- How to have the hard conversations.
- It’s not me, it’s you
- On the spot round of conflicts that Clarissa solves for me live on the call so we don’t say “I’m fine” or “bitch plezz” or “back off b*tch!” no more...don’t be shocked, girl I see you!
- Why coddling is disgusting
- One sure way to know who you can trust
Book recommendations from Clarissa:
STATE from Crucial Conversations in Kindle + Paperback
7 Habits of Highly Effective People
Kartman Drama Triangle which talks about: Persecutor - Victim - Rescuer.
Center for Creative Leadership which covers SBI
Come find Clarisa on insta @ccr_sunshine
LinkedIn: Clarissa Castillo-Ramsey
FB: Clarissa Ramsey Studio
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